Friday, November 14, 2014

Primer on Discovering Your Calling

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Discovering our "Strengths" is one place to start our journey.

A good assessment is Strengthfinders.2.0  http://strengths.gallup.com/110440/About-StrengthsFinder-20.aspx       You can purchase at Amazon for about $15

It has a code in the back of the book that you use when you go online to take the 177 question assessment. After taking the assessment you get an immediate printout of your top 5 strength and a commentary on how to further develop those "talents" into strengths.


It gives you all 34 Strengths from high to low AND gives you a 2 minute video of EACH Strength!

Both assessments are good. You can compare the two printouts side by side and get a more complete view of your talents that can be developed into "Strengths"

The results of knowing your "Strengths" is that you can use them in your job, career, volunteering and in your marriage. 

Now if you are ready to tackle your Abilities, a good book that is probably out of print is Discovering Your Natural Talents by John Brady and Jay Carty.
John Bardley has a company called    Idak Group
They have an online Abilities Assessment. Cost $27. Very good.

  Another step in our journey is to find out your S.H.A.PE. 

Maybe this is really the place to START!

S is your Spiritual Gifts.
H is your Heart or Passion
A is your Abilities
P is your Personality
E is your Experiences.

There are several websites that offer an online survey.
They are approaching this from a Christian worldview. The Spiritual Gifts part.
Gives you a great analysis on how to use your SHAPE in a Christian non profit.
If you don't do the Spiritual Gift section it also applies to a Secular non profit.
They give a great printout.



You can search Google for a S.H.A.P.E. Assessment. 
It is a great tool. 



More later on "Calling"

 

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Monday, November 10, 2014

Our SHAPE and Strengths

A few thoughts on "Calling" from the book: 

THE GRAND WEAVER   
How God Shapes Us Through the Events of Our Lives

 By Ravi Zacharias

 
To allow God to be God we must follow him for who he is and what he intends, and not for what we want or what we prefer. Seeing the designing hand of God and His intervention in our lives in such a way that we know He has a specific purpose for each of us and that He will carry us through until we meet Him face-to-face and know ourselves completely.
Once we begin to see God’s hand in our life, we will know that his workmanship within us and through us was tailor-made, just for me. His design for my life pulls together every thread of my existence into a magnificent work of art. Every thread matters and has a specific purpose.
By his sovereign will, we have come into being with an expressed and designed purpose.
When you finally meet the One who made you and examine the lifelines he has sent you along the way, you will at last understand how every detail made sense in the swirling reality of life’s blessings and threats. 

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Will explore more on what our S.H.AP.E is soon.
S=Spiritual Gifts
H=Heart or Passion
A=Abilities
P=PersonalityE=Experiences.
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Our "Strengths" Where do they fit into the picture?
Another day!

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Using your "Strengths" to make good Decisions!



Best/Worst Analysis  
B/WA Formula
 Notes taken from the book by Ben Carson,

 TAKE THE RISK: Learning to Identify, Choose, and Live with Acceptable Risk.


I would summarize one of the most important insights I took from the book as “How to make decisions without leaving God out of the equation!

Risk Analysis Process

You can print this and use as a template for decision making.

Questions to ask when making a decision:

What is the best thing that can happen if I do this?





What is the worst thing that can happen if I do this?





What is the best thing that can happen if I don’t do it?





What is the worst thing that can happen if I don’t do it?










Ask these questions in light of the following:
Outcomes may change over time because of changing conditions!

Who?


What?


Where?


When?


How?


Why?


Answering these familiar queries in the context of the four basic Best/Worst Analysis questions will sharpen the focus and refine the accuracy of any risk analysis process

WHERE

Where are you going? (Your goals)
Where are you now? (Your skills, your abilities, your thinking, and your attitudes)
Where will you start? (Your preparation)


WHEN

Often the timing of a Best/Worst Analysis affects our conclusion.
Always do a B/WA again whenever you think something has changed significantly: a year later, at a different point in life, or maybe after pondering some of these who, what, when,  how, and why considerations. Times change. So do circumstances. Sometimes those changes will affect your Best/Worst Analysis, modifying your thinking-maybe even reversing your decision.

HOW

You don’t have to address who, what, where, when, how, and why in any particular order.  They may need to be viewed simultaneously because they sometimes complement each other or need to be combined.

Sometimes answering one of the (how or?) conclusions may change your risk-analysis equation entirely.

WHY

It is impossible to do an effective B/WA without considering why. You need to examine, and often re examine, your reasoning in light of your motives, which involve your personal values.  Your values must be weighed carefully against you’re analyses and conclusions. 

Some Truths About RISK

1.                  Everything is Risky
2.                  The more we know, the more we worry.
3.                  A Lot of Risks Aren’t Worth the Worry.
4.                  We Can’t Eliminate All Risk
5.                  Minimizing Risk Is Often the Best We Can Do.
6.                  Each of Us Has to Decide What the Acceptable Risks Are
7.                  Not All Risks Are Bad
8.                  We Are All Going to Die of Something Eventually







Risk Number One-Thinking in New Ways

Risk Number Two-Weighing the Alternatives

Risk Number Three-Making Your Own Decision


Even when the Best/Worse Analysis doesn’t result in a particularly positive outcome, you are unlikely to have a worse outcome because you did the analysis, and what a B/WA does guarantee is that you consider the various possibilities in a reasonable, logical manner before making any uncertain or risky decision. That has to improve the odds that you come up with a happy solution-or at least with a reasonable and defensible course of action that will minimize the risk of regrets.

Need to weigh risks in light of my beliefs and my values. My obligations to others should be greater than any obligations to myself.

Since I believe God’s guidance and provision has brought me to this point, I should ask Him to open the doors He wants me to walk through and to give me wisdom in how to proceed.

Importance of using my talents and not allow minor interferences to derail my mission if life.

Creativity requires risk, so does exploration and innovation. Anyone who thinks outside the box is taking a risk.

In doing this risk analysis, one needs to consider the implications of any decision, not just for one’s self but for other people. How will my decision impact others?


Taking Us Out of the Middle

Once we manage to remove our egos from the equation, many of the most commonplace and unsettling personal risks we face in life become a lot less personal and no longer seem to be much of a risk after all.  That discovery frees us up to better concentrate on dealing with the real risks presented by truly important issues.

Something to pray about!



 Bet you didn't see this coming!

We didn't even talk about "Strengths"

Come back again. Will address that!

Have a great day! 



Monday, November 3, 2014

Still More on Strengths

Check out the Most Popular Posts on the Right Hand side of this Blog.

More later today.


 "Most people think they know what they are good at. They are usually wrong...and yet, a person can perform only from strength." Peter Drucker

 Research has shown: "Most successful people start with dominant talent or Strengths...and then add skills, knowledge, and practice to the mix."  Now, Discover Your Strengths Marcus Buckingham & Donald O. Clifton, PhD. 

Great  REVIEW on Book:    Strengthsfinder 2.0   Available on Amazon for $16.00

To be a good volunteer and to find lasting satisfaction in volunteering you will need to understand your unique patterns in your life.

Need to discover your talents and find ways to develop them into real Strengths!

So forget about your "weakness's" and concentrate on your potential strengths.

Best for Volunteer managers in non profits to look for clues in a volunteers natural talents and encourage them to move into positions where their talents can be developed into real strengths.


Monday, October 27, 2014

A few thoughts from the Red Cross Disaster Training Conference at the Heidel House.

 

Wisconsin Disaster Training Conference 2014


 48 Great courses over 3 days. Hard to pick from such a great selection.
Red Cross Staff & Volunteers from several states.
Second Conference my wife & I have attended.
Dr. Tina Brookes herself a Red Cross Volunteer volunteered her time coming her all the way from North Carolina. Thanks Tina!

 Tina Brookes, Keynote Speaker at The Wisconsin Disaster Training Conference 2014
Her Presentation: Stress Management for the Disaster Responder.

Dr. Brookes has specialized in critical incident crisis response for over 20 years. She is an American Red Cross volunteer Disaster Mental Health Supervisor. She has offered support, training, and consultation to law enforcement, fire rescue, EMS, emergency management, hospitals, military, schools, and community agencies.

Tina Swanson Brookes, Ed.D, MSW, LCSW, CISM Instructor.


A few of my Tweets today:

All from the Red Cross Conference at the Heidel House.
Thanks to the donor who made all this possible!!!

 
Dr. Tina Brookes Keynote speaker and Red Cross Wi. CEO Patty Flowers.
Tina Brookes Keynote Speaker & CEO Patty Flowers
 
 
 
 A brief overview of my presentation. 
A powerpoint will be added later.

 
 
 

Monday, October 20, 2014

Strengths Summary